Does She Have to Share Your Kink?


NYTimes, the paper of record, has an article about a young lady who needs to be spanked. Is it possible to be in a long term relationship with someone who doesn’t share your fetish?

Read more at nytimes.com.

45 Comments

  1. hackcomic

    November 11, 2012 at 8:13 pm

    I afraid I will die alone! that is all

    • creepboot45

      November 13, 2012 at 2:40 pm

      @hackcomic We all die alone.

  2. CryBaby1

    November 11, 2012 at 8:15 pm

    She sounds like she deserves a good beating. Just sayin’.

  3. Random Poster

    November 11, 2012 at 8:17 pm

    I sure hope so, considering I am about to be married. She knows all my dirty secrets and I hide nothing from her, but she definitly needs to step up to the plate more.

    • K Dubya

      November 11, 2012 at 8:45 pm

      @Random Poster And we all know everyone loosens up after they get married, good luck with that

    • Anthony From California

      November 11, 2012 at 8:52 pm

      @Random Poster “Step up to the plate” sounds like you want her to do you with a strap on, just saying.

      • Random Poster

        November 11, 2012 at 9:37 pm

        @Anthony From California
        Don’t knock it until you try it. They have the strapless kind now, that is fun for both parties.

    • SarahMcSmokeyPants

      November 11, 2012 at 9:02 pm

      I think I speak for all wives when I say, Hahhh yeah, sure honey.

      • Random Poster

        November 11, 2012 at 10:11 pm

        @SarahMcSmokeyPants That goes for all sex, not just the kinky stuff… She knows I will have to look elsewhere to fill a void. Sex is not dependent on love. She on the other hand does not agree… I am open and honest about being a pig, and I think we have a slight advantage because we discuss it.

      • Narc Zito

        November 11, 2012 at 10:27 pm

        @Random Poster  @SarahMcSmokeyPants You might want to think twice before diving in, dude.

      • SarahMcSmokeyPants

        November 11, 2012 at 10:52 pm

        @TweetoPus  @SarahMcSmokeyPants I wouldnt want to get married under those circumstances but everyone is different, as long as you are honest with her and she is going into it with her eyes open I cant fault you. I wish you the best.

      • SarahMcSmokeyPants

        November 11, 2012 at 10:56 pm

        @TweetoPus  @SarahMcSmokeyPants  I wouldnt want to get married under those circumstances but as long as you are honest with her and she is going into it with her eyes open I cant fault you. If you go into it with problems though they will only get worse, not better. Obviously I dont know you though, I wish you the best.

  4. FLprodivider66

    November 11, 2012 at 8:35 pm

    All I ask is that she has to be able to swallow the sword and lick the balls at the same time…that’s not asking too much hehe

    • K Dubya

      November 11, 2012 at 8:36 pm

      @FLprodivider66 in your case it’s not…zing!

      • FLprodivider66

        November 11, 2012 at 9:26 pm

        @K Dubya…you son-of-a-bitch! Lol

  5. K Dubya

    November 11, 2012 at 8:36 pm

    Luckily for me my wife enjoys cold passionless sex as much as i do

  6. galactictraveler

    November 11, 2012 at 8:40 pm

    It would certainly be easier if she liked the smell of chloroform !

    • Shaggyballz74

      November 11, 2012 at 9:26 pm

      @galactictraveler rape is funny

  7. sterlingblue

    November 11, 2012 at 8:47 pm

    Portia de Rossi?

  8. Anthony From California

    November 11, 2012 at 8:48 pm

    She has to share my love of The Kinks

  9. TBVickroy

    November 11, 2012 at 9:03 pm

    She doesn’t have to share fetish, but as I always say, it puts the lotion on its skin or else gets the hose again.

  10. Narc Zito

    November 11, 2012 at 10:28 pm

    I think it depends on how serious your thing is.  Do you HAVE to have x, y, and z go on to finish?  Or is it just something you like?  One’s a deal breaker, and the other isn’t.

    • shrekkalove

      November 12, 2012 at 12:48 am

      @Narc Zito Way to go for the joke, Zeets!

      • Narc Zito

        November 12, 2012 at 7:25 am

        @shrekkalove Now all I want to do is tag a punchcard line here, but I still can’t find the funny.  Being angry about FFL is not helpful to my posts.

  11. plastic thoughts

    November 11, 2012 at 11:06 pm

    If you don’t turn her out, someone else will.

    • SerotoninsGone

      November 12, 2012 at 12:43 am

      @SerotoninSpeaks Get your own screen name, dick.

      • plastic thoughts

        November 12, 2012 at 1:00 am

        @SerotoninsGone @SerotoninSpeaks Changed it last night not knowing someone else had such a similar name.

    • SerotoninsGone

      November 12, 2012 at 12:51 am

      @plastic thoughts Thanks!

  12. DelCoTrash

    November 12, 2012 at 12:54 am

    why wld you start a long term relationship with someone who didn’t satisfy your kinks.  Kink cards on the table early on, preferably before dessert.  you don’t want to be walking into her place goin “you do anal right?” classless

  13. Roadrash Hicks

    November 12, 2012 at 6:21 am

    it helps

  14. Beer

    November 12, 2012 at 8:11 am

    I’m married to a woman who does not share my fetish of seeing her have sex with another woman…she’s very selfish

  15. DeathProof

    November 12, 2012 at 9:29 am

    Doesn’t make a difference…odds are 60%-70% that it ends in divorce anyway.

  16. Aria Taint

    November 12, 2012 at 1:09 pm

    Whats wrong with a finger in the ass? Fez, response?

  17. Troyquan

    November 12, 2012 at 1:31 pm

    I want to kiss Dana’s feet. Dana do you want to date?

  18. Rorschach7

    November 12, 2012 at 1:32 pm

    Absolutely! If a girl isnt into all my weird sick needs.. I wont have anything to do with her sexually.

  19. LizSetsFire

    November 12, 2012 at 1:33 pm

    I need to be with a real filth bag.

  20. Aria Taint

    November 12, 2012 at 1:36 pm

    Put this Elmo head on honey…

  21. archg2

    November 12, 2012 at 1:48 pm

    yes

  22. c_ocobean

    November 12, 2012 at 2:10 pm

    depends if there was an agreement which both parties understood on being able to seek individuals outside the relationship to fullfill the fetish(s). Otherwise there would be a good chance one partner will cheat in order to fill that overwhelming desire.

  23. Jerry65

    November 12, 2012 at 2:24 pm

    I try to explain to my cat, not sure she understands. Yes, it’s a female cat, I’m not gay…

  24. 5divines

    November 12, 2012 at 6:59 pm

    As someone who has been with the same girl for 23 years, Hell Yes! she better share your fetishes.  When things get rough (in life, I mean), sometimes the kink is all that gets you through.

  25. cuckwannabe

    November 12, 2012 at 9:45 pm

    I’m into cuckolding and want to meet a woman I can watch have sex with a well hung black man. I’ve tried having a vanilla relationship, but it just never works. I can never get that thought out of my head.  Also, I’m never able to talk a woman I’m dating into this unless she already has an interest in it herself. It never works out unless you stick to people that share your fetishes.

  26. laterday jk

    November 13, 2012 at 1:37 pm

    I was with someone for 8 years repressing the feelings and dying inside and then finally opened up and while we may not share kinks the understanding and trust to explore was a better feeling than any kink could provide.  i married that woman a few months later.

  27. Mikfin

    November 13, 2012 at 2:02 pm

    Some of the comments are as difficult to read as the videos of horrific injuries are to watch.  Didn’t stop me, but I’m just sayin…

  28. Scott_Chandwater

    November 13, 2012 at 2:07 pm

    every time i spank my girlfriend, my wife starts masturbating.