Does She Have to Share Your Kink?


NYTimes, the paper of record, has an article about a young lady who needs to be spanked. Is it possible to be in a long term relationship with someone who doesn’t share your fetish?

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40 comments
G_SPOT_TORNADO
G_SPOT_TORNADO

every time i spank my girlfriend, my wife starts masturbating.

Mikfin
Mikfin

Some of the comments are as difficult to read as the videos of horrific injuries are to watch.  Didn't stop me, but I'm just sayin...

laterday jk
laterday jk

I was with someone for 8 years repressing the feelings and dying inside and then finally opened up and while we may not share kinks the understanding and trust to explore was a better feeling than any kink could provide.  i married that woman a few months later.

cuckwannabe
cuckwannabe

I'm into cuckolding and want to meet a woman I can watch have sex with a well hung black man. I've tried having a vanilla relationship, but it just never works. I can never get that thought out of my head.  Also, I'm never able to talk a woman I'm dating into this unless she already has an interest in it herself. It never works out unless you stick to people that share your fetishes.

5divines
5divines

As someone who has been with the same girl for 23 years, Hell Yes! she better share your fetishes.  When things get rough (in life, I mean), sometimes the kink is all that gets you through.

Jerry65
Jerry65

I try to explain to my cat, not sure she understands. Yes, it's a female cat, I'm not gay...

c_ocobean
c_ocobean

depends if there was an agreement which both parties understood on being able to seek individuals outside the relationship to fullfill the fetish(s). Otherwise there would be a good chance one partner will cheat in order to fill that overwhelming desire.

Rorschach7
Rorschach7

Absolutely! If a girl isnt into all my weird sick needs.. I wont have anything to do with her sexually.

Aria Taint
Aria Taint

Whats wrong with a finger in the ass? Fez, response?

 

DeathProof
DeathProof

Doesn't make a difference...odds are 60%-70% that it ends in divorce anyway.

Beer
Beer

I'm married to a woman who does not share my fetish of seeing her have sex with another woman...she's very selfish

DelCoTrash
DelCoTrash

why wld you start a long term relationship with someone who didn't satisfy your kinks.  Kink cards on the table early on, preferably before dessert.  you don't want to be walking into her place goin "you do anal right?" classless

Narc Zito
Narc Zito

I think it depends on how serious your thing is.  Do you HAVE to have x, y, and z go on to finish?  Or is it just something you like?  One's a deal breaker, and the other isn't.

Vickroy
Vickroy

She doesn't have to share fetish, but as I always say, it puts the lotion on its skin or else gets the hose again.

galactictraveler
galactictraveler

It would certainly be easier if she liked the smell of chloroform !

K Dubya
K Dubya

Luckily for me my wife enjoys cold passionless sex as much as i do 

FLpro
FLpro

All I ask is that she has to be able to swallow the sword and lick the balls at the same time...that's not asking too much hehe

CryBaby1
CryBaby1

She sounds like she deserves a good beating. Just sayin'.

hackcomic
hackcomic

I afraid I will die alone! that is all

SarahMcPants
SarahMcPants

I think I speak for all wives when I say, Hahhh yeah, sure honey.

Anthony From California
Anthony From California

@Random Poster "Step up to the plate" sounds like you want her to do you with a strap on, just saying.

K Dubya
K Dubya

 @Random Poster And we all know everyone loosens up after they get married, good luck with that 

Plastic Thoughts
Plastic Thoughts

@SerotoninsGone @SerotoninSpeaks Changed it last night not knowing someone else had such a similar name.

Narc Zito
Narc Zito

 @shrekkalove Now all I want to do is tag a punchcard line here, but I still can't find the funny.  Being angry about FFL is not helpful to my posts.

FLpro
FLpro

@K Dubya...you son-of-a-bitch! Lol

SarahMcPants
SarahMcPants

 @TweetoPus  @SarahMcSmokeyPants  I wouldnt want to get married under those circumstances but as long as you are honest with her and she is going into it with her eyes open I cant fault you. If you go into it with problems though they will only get worse, not better. Obviously I dont know you though, I wish you the best.